- This account is based on over 1000 years of cumulative experience with narcissists, psychopaths, coercive controllers, toxic leaders (dark personalities or predators) and their victims. - I was the first person ever to gather data from expert practitioners working long-term…

We hear of people being ‘triggered’. Triggered does not mean stressed or reactive or upset. In victims of narcissists/psychopaths, triggered means being acutely reminded of the feelings, pain & inescapability of long-term torture. If someone says they’re triggered, be kind.

When is a Cathoic Priest not employed as a Catholic Priest? According to the High Court they're never employed, not during holy communion, preaching from the altar, hearing confession, receiving jobkeeper and especially not when they're raping kids.

High functioning narcissists/psychopaths - those that are doctors, lawyers, CEOs, priests, psychologists etc - can exert excruciating mental & emotional torture on others without laying a finger on them. The justice system focuses only on physical harm, however, without any…

Narcissistic/psychopathic parents often ‘emotionally kidnap’ their children. That is, they create such an extreme mindset in their children against the other parent, that the children refuse to see the other parent ever again and actively misrepresent the protective parent to…

The vindictiveness of a narcissist/psychopath is next level. They will wait weeks, months, years to punish someone. The punishment is always exceptionally hurtful and/or harmful. Punishment is asserted for trying to expose them, having something they covet, winning against…

Victims of narcissists/psychopaths often self harm, suicide, resort to addictions, lose relationships, lose employment, lose their children & so much more. The level of destruction is almost impossible for someone who has not been targeted to understand.

Before marriage, the narcissist/psychopath shows very little signs of their true nature. In fact, they engage in a process which is referred to as ‘love bombing’, showering the person with praise, gifts, interesting times but most importantly, becoming the perfect match for…

What is it like to be married to a narcissist/psychopath? 1. Scary. You know they will punish you if they are not happy with you. They sometimes suddenly launch into a powerful rage. They sometimes don’t talk to you for long periods. 2. Hurtful. They put their wants and needs…

Narcissists/psychopaths use a mix of intimidation & deeply positive reinforcement to control others. Targets are drawn to the positive reinforcement and feel a sense of safety and being truly ‘gotten’. They become upset and often experience a mild sense of panic when the…

If your child persistently shares stories about your husband/wife engaging in abuse, you MUST take this seriously. Dark personalities number in their many millions throughout the world. They skilfully engage kindhearted people to marry them. They are, though, not who they…

Tragically, people targeted by dark personalities/predators are often targeted by more than one. This may have the effect of making the target seem somehow at fault or ‘weird’ because who has several dark personalities after them? Multiple targeting occurs because predators…

It is a DANGEROUS assumption that narcissists/psychopaths want to be better people. Those targeted by dark personalities are well intentioned & caring. They generally like to help others. Dark personalities have a completely different motivation to the rest of us however. They…

This question has been asked millions of times as victims of dark personalities struggle to be believed. Yes, many humans are that dangerous! They are motivated by control & sadism due to brain anomalies which is why they put so much time into harming & disadvantaging others.

Narcissists/psychopaths punish people who try to expose them, people who compromise them achieving their goals, people who have something they want and people who win against them. The punishment is often deeply distressing &/or cruel. It may have a substantial impact on the…

A narcissist/psychopath will push a person to the edge. They’ll intimidate, demean, provoke, manipulate, lie, cross sexual boundaries, control decisions, alternate between building the victim up & undermining them, misrepresent them to others. Then they will say the victim is…

Can you tell when a narcissist/psychopath is lying? No matter how good you are at reading people, the answer is ‘no’. Dark personalities have brain anomalies of the prefrontal cortex & amygdala. They do not experience fear or shame. They are therefore compelling when they lie!

Artificial intelligence has the capacity to get people to suicide. AI is the sum of the information fed into it. The tactics narcs/psychopaths use to get others to suicide are inevitably part of this mix. Are we protecting against this? Do people profiting from AI even care?

If you think narcissists are people who like attention & psychopaths are serial killers, you have been successfully manipulated. Narcissists, psychopaths are subsets of 1 overarching dangerous dark personality type that share the same attributes. Researchers have misled us. Why?

How do I avoid being targeted by a narcissist, psychopath, predator/dark personality? Tough question because predators DO target very specific types. If you are kind, well-meaning, honest and have some kind of vulnerability you are much more likely to get targeted. A few…