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15. Never use the term "get over it". It is encouraging for your spouse to show anger, pain and distaste at such actions. Telling them to get over it is a sign of arrogance that can destroy the marriage. #AdamandEve
14. An infidelity means that you might have shared your bed with someone else, which can be VERY hard to get over, even if you're not the jealous type. You might feel weird being intimate with your spouse but working on your sex life together is a sign of progress. #AdamandEve
13. Can you be totally honest with your spouse about the affair? Whether you cheated or your partner did, both of you will need to talk about it no matter how much pain and anguish it brings. The moment you begin to smile about it, that is a good sign of surviving. #AdamandEve
12. Answer these questions honestly: a. Do they call when they say they will? b. Is your partner doing everything possible to make you feel safe? c. Do you think you can open yourself to trusting your spouse again? If your answers are YES, then you are surviving. #AdamandEve
11. This next point is going to generate a lot of raised eyebrows but can you and your spouse engage in total transparency? Are you willing to give up all your email(s), phone and social media passwords to your spouse? As this can help rebuild trust. #AdamandEve
10. In order to forgive, can you put yourself in your partner shoes? See how you would want to be treated if you were the one who had the affair? #AdamandEve
9. Even though you want to keep an open dialogue and ask all the questions you can, don't allow the talk of the affair take up all your time. Know when to put a lid on it. This would help keep your marriage healthy. #AdamandEve
8. Choosing the right advice. Family and friends, coworkers and bosses, church and departments...will have advices and opinions for you at this point, it is advisable to take time out and focus solely on the word of God, waiting to hear from God. #AdamandEve
7. It is going to be hard but do not make any major decision about the relationship during this crisis. The words and thoughts of "divorce", "separation" should not come up in any form. #AdamandEve
6. Take care of yourself. This crisis phase will pass, things will become clearer as the intense emotions of disappointment begin to settle. It is important that you take good care of yourself, don't loose it. #AdamandEve
5. Apologizing sometimes is not enough. Saying 'I am so sorry" might have to be said ten times a day, every month, before there's a breakthrough of any kind. #AdamandEve
4. Another reason can be upbringing. If your spouse was raised in a house where it was OK for Dad to have a woman come in or Mum to bring in a strange man, without consequences, then tendencies are that the spouse would think its alright to have affairs. #AdamandEve
3. Some others cheat because they have lost the desire to be in the marriage. Maybe they've been trying to communicate without results, cheating becomes the avenue to finally having that conversation and being heard. #AdamandEve
2. Sometimes one individual is totally done and checked out. They've fallen out of love and they might use cheating as a justification for the relationship to be over due to a lack of connection. #AdamandEve.
1. The first thought for some when their spouse cheats on them is to call it quits, remember that people cheat for lots of reasons, including opportunity, so your partner's affair does not mean your marriage has to end. Rather, have a heart to heart communication. #AdamandEve
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