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Unhealthy Threes attempt to keep the illusion of their superiority alive through deception and false claims about themselves. They may engage in unethical, even illegal, activities in order to save their sinking self-esteem.
As children, Threes learned to recognize the activities that were valued by their parents or peers, and put their energies into excelling in those activities. Threes also learned how to cultivate and develop whatever about them is attractive or potentially impressive.
Fours, At their Best: inspired and highly creative, they are able to renew themselves and transform their experiences.
But, while Threes do tend to succeed in whatever realm they focus their energies, they are often secretly afraid of being or becoming “losers.”
Ones are attracted to and value goodness. They desire to be good persons, seeking to make the world a better place to live in. They want to realize all of their potentials and help others actualize theirs.
Ironically, Fours at Two will likely begin to hate the very person they have become dependent upon, since their dependency is a constant reminder of their defects and lack of self-esteem.
Trust allows Ones to go with the flow and not push the river, since it’s flowing by itself. They do what they find pleasurable and desirable, what they want to do instead of what they should do.
Through their patience and courage, Sixes can learn to accept their independence and express themselves freely in the world. At their best, Sixes are able to let go of their worries and focus on matters they can change in the present moment.
Nines disengage from the environment and from their anxiety in order to maintain a peaceful equilibrium within themselves. When events around them become too stressful for this defense to work, they begin to experience the full intensity of their anxiety, like average Sixes.
Threes are motivated by a need for attention and admiration. They strive to be successful and significant to avoid feeling worthless.
While it is true that Fours often feel different from others, they do not really want to be alone. They may feel socially awkward or self-conscious, but they deeply wish to connect with people who understand them and their feelings.
Under continued pressure or when faced with the possibility of failure, Threes are, however, likely to become more short-tempered and snappy.
Because they are trying hard to be good, Ones avoid experiencing or expressing their anger. Good boys and good girls shouldn’t be angry. They are either unaware of their anger or are reluctant to express it directly.
Sixes make their internal stability dependent on the stability of their external environment: in other words, as long as everything in their lives is running reasonably well, they feel secure and able to cope with things.
One of the biggest challenges Fours face is learning to let go of feelings from the past; they tend to nurse wounds and hold onto negative feelings about those who have hurt them.
Unhealthy Fours still hope that someone will see their plight and rescue them, that the “good parent” may still appear, but that hope seems increasingly remote and eventually becomes another source of self-torture.
Fives are the most introverted of the Enneagram types, in the sense that they direct the most focus and energy inward. Rather than focusing on relationships, the Five's primary focus is on gaining knowledge.
At their worst, Threes backstab ruthlessly and destroy others’ reputations solely for their own benefit.
Projecting confidence is very important to Threes, who want to look confident and will mask feelings that may detract from this image. Others are therefore likely to experience Threes as unmoved, focused and even somewhat serious.
Many Nines grow up in environments where they were forced into a position of mediating conflict between parents or other family members. Since they were surrounded by bigger emotions, they learned at a young age to devalue their own.
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