Dr. Margo Lowy
@drmargolowyPsychotherapist | Maternal Ambivalence | Author | Speaker l Lecturer | Disrupting traditional attitudes about mothering.
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If you're a mum who has been through and experienced the newborn stage... What words of wisdom or encouragement would you share with expecting parents or moms of little ones? Share in the comments!
What kind of grandmother is your mom to your kids? Do you wish she’d be more involved or less? I want you to know that it’s normal to feel ambivalent — grateful for her help yet longing to own your own parenting journey. You're doing great!
As a first-time mum, the urge to prove something to yourself is strong. You want to do the work yourself because letting someone else step in feels like it takes something away from your journey. But finding your community and allowing help doesn’t take away from your role.
Motherhood isn't just a series of perfect, joyous moments—it's real, messy, and beautifully chaotic. This honest perspective could change everything.
Navigating the journey of motherhood with two children brings its own unique set of challenges. Try and welcome the transition, the tension, and the growth. You're not just adding a child; you're expanding your identity as a mother. 💕
One messy moment at a time you're juggling diapers, dreams, and everything in between. It's a journey of humanness, and you're doing great, mum!
Just like their "bad" days don't make them "bad" kids, your "bad" days don't make you a "bad" mother. You are human, ALL your emotions are there by design. Give yourself grace.
In this ever-changing world of being a mum, finding comfort in change is your superpower!
For many mums, it's not the chaos of a new baby that's hard... It's the trapped feeling when the days feel monotonous, and your world shrinks to just you and your baby that's hard. You are not wrong for feeling this. You can feel this AND still love your baby.
Show your kids that happiness isn't the only key to safety in life, and that every emotion they experience matters. Learn to tolerate their frustration and sadness, helping them work through it and feel it, rather than just telling them "everything will be okay."
As we grow into motherhood, we realize that feeling frustrated during our journey AND still loving our kids and being a good mum is part of the journey. You're doing an amazing job, even when it feels tough. 🐕💄🤣
A) Feels guilty about taking a break because it means you're a bad mom B) Feels guilty about taking a break AND knows you’re still a good mom
We adore, we cherish, and yes, sometimes we yearn for what once was. Maternal ambivalence means making room for all these feelings and understanding they're part of being a wonderful mom.
Being a mindful parent isn’t about constant positivity; it’s about getting curious about all feelings with compassion. 💖 By practicing mindfulness, how do you find the strength to flow with your emotions, accepting the full spectrum without fear? Share your experiences!
As a mum, remembering the idea that getting it wrong is just as important as getting it right is truly freeing.
Let's give words to our experiences as mums and support each other through every step of this challenging journey.
We need to talk about the full reality of mothering together—the highs and the lows. Let's share the truthful experiences of motherhood, supporting each other through every part of this journey.
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