When I realized you can work so hard and still be poor, that's when I started praying for God's Grace.

the calm energy of someone who has been through a lot >>> very wise.

Imagine your wife, going to cheat on you because the man wants to buy her cat fish pepper soup. Or because he bought her airtime. Things that you can easily afford for her. Cheap things. But she doesn't care. That's how you got her too. End.

Dear women, Don't marry a man that pays your rent, pays you monthly allowance, & school fees. You'll most likely cheat on him in marriage when he goes broke. Marry a man that did not get you to respect him because of his money. I know some of you idiots will not listen. End.

If your boyfriend allows you to go groove in the clubs while he’s not around, trust me you’re not in his plans 💯

If your gf proudly shows what you bought for her to her mother, & her mother is happy. Her mother will support you to marry her, even if you're a fraudster. Your gf should be afraid of showing off anything her parents didn't buy for her. Except she bought it herself. End.

A guy very close me just got paid RAF about a month or 2 go. His plan? Open a big supermarket.... Amakula from (Pakistan or Bangladesh) tell him not to open the supermarket cos they have shops in the area. He goes ahead, last night he was shot 5 times.

Don't ask your gf or wife, if she loves you. You're asking the wrong question. She doesn't, & she never will. And she shouldn't. Any man that's hoping for his woman to love him, will hope in vain. And any woman that wants to prove she loves her man, will do so in vain. End.

If your single mother raised you alone, till you became an adult, please go & look for your father & reconcile with him, before you get married. If your father is late, look for an elderly man to get close to. Don't ever get married, based on what your mother taught you. End.

As a single woman, if you have money to buy a Benz, buy a Toyota. If you have money to flex life, do it on a low key. But keep your eye on a man that you know can afford better than what you can afford for yourself. Otherwise, men who can't afford it, will exploit you. End.

Any lady that shows no signs of being scared of losing you, is a lady that you should not get married to. Don't ever allow a woman make you feel like she settled for you. You're the man. If you feel that you have showed good signs of a leader, & you know that you're not lazy,

If you're a married man to a good wife. Just think of all that she does for you and the children. You'll never wish that she dies before you. End.

A man must be up and doing. If you start by turning a blind eye to your wife's money, you'll have more peace at home. If you show kindness to your wife & you vetted her well, she can cover your shame. Because life can be unpredictable. Marry a woman that has shame. End.

Learn that in marriage, you may encounter challenges. And how both of you dated will go a long way in determining how you will navigate those challenges. If you miss it in relationship, marriage will humble you. And the reality of it may make you question your mental health.

age, men may not wish to marry them because of the information that you revealed to the public. This is why I keep telling unmarried men and women to learn how to date with sincerity of purpose. Know what you're capable of doing & what you need, & do not marry the wrong spouse.

your respect for him as a wife because of that, it doesn't mean that you must show it in the public too. He knows what he's dealing with already. Allow him love his children & stop painting him as a useless man in their presence & in the public. When your daughters come of

a wife and mother to uphold that family. While the man leads it. Yes God has told men to provide for their families. But if he's unable to do that, it doesn't mean that his presence in that family is worthless. Financial duties is not all a man is needed for. If you lose

settle issues. The public will only use you for mockery. So for a man to get back his dignity, he is forced to speak up. Then the children become the losers. Let's not allow social media make us lose our sense of dignity and shame. No family is perfect. And it's the duty of

pay the school fees of the kids. Granted, it's not supposed to be so. But if a hardworking husband that life has unfortunately dealt with, needs your support, it's not for you to disgrace him publicly. Why do you have inlaws and extended family? They're there to help and

to protect the shame that it would bring upon the children. It's disheartening for a wife who is not divorced and the husband is still alive, to publicly declare herself as a "single mother". And then you shame your husband publicly because you're the provider or because you